Negative Thoughts!!

My mothers brother and sister are getting a divorce. My uncle, my mothers brother has been speaking to my grandmother, his mother about my aunt his wife about the situation and how my aunt is doing this and that to him. My grandmother believes about 97 percent of everything that my uncle is saying to her. What my grandmother does not realize is that Uncle is telling the story so that the story is in his favor. He is telling it from his perspective. He is telling the story so that my grandparents will be on his side.

This is not the way to go about things. What this is doing is placing feelings and thoughts in my grandparents head before they even heard from my aunt, my uncles wife her side, her perspective, her point of view. I think now even if she told her side of the story, my grandparents have already formed a opinion about her about this situation. So they may never forget. Keep your negative thoughts to your self, If it is not benefiting you, the other person, or if you would not say to the person directly, don't say. It pulls us away form God.